sharing your survivor story

This is a statement said in a support group meeting. It is especially true for husbands and wives who mates die. Everything is a constant reminder that their wife or husband is gone. The meals---the bed at night. Their favorite restaurant or TV show. The reminder is overwhelming at times. Holidays and birthday and anniversaries all are reminders. Family reunions and mail that comes addressed to the deceased. At some point the memories become less painful and bring a smile--but it takes awhile. Their absence is a constant presence. How true!